The pile of crystal point on the 5 of Swords reminds me of a kids’ TV game show that used to feature 3 adolescents competing in various physical activities. The final event was scaling something called the Agrocrag (or Megacrag depending on which variation). This image reminds me of that Agrocrag – a pile of geometric shapes that needed to be approached with caution. The tip of this pile of crystals point directly at me. It suggests I need to be pierced or have something punctured. It reminds me of a spear point.
I think what needs to be pierced is my retreat into a world of the mind. I don’t actually live here most of the time but it is a well-honed and well-used defense mechanism. Intellectualization and rationalization are two of my most effective mechanism for avoiding actually doing stuff. I can think of loads of reasons why something shouldn’t work or why I shouldn’t bother to try something new. It’s a brilliant method of staying stuck in a rut. If I want to take a more active role in my life then I need to get the hell out of that rut and puncture that fear of failure, ego-driven approach to life.
The reversed 2 of Cups seems to be a heart cracked open and pouring love down on me. I am surrounded by it and awash in it. I get such a gentle, warm and nurturing energy from this card (I think the coloring of Ellen’s Cups in this deck makes it one of my favorite versions of the suit). It reminds me of a prayer I learned in Catholic elementary school about the “most sacred heart of Jesus”. It included the line “take it and place it in your open, broken heart” (or at least that’s how I heard it). At the time the imagery creeped me out (it was right up there with the line “if I should die before I wake” in another prayer), but looking at this image I feel as though that open broken heart is not damaged at all simply loving and giving. It is healing me and allowing me to grow stronger as a result.
I have always considered myself an extrovert but today I took an online Myers-Briggs Personality test and the results were ISFP. To say I was surprised to see that I scored higher (although not by much) on the introvert scale was something of a surprise. Then I read the description and it did click. Especially this paragraph “This personality trait is connected with ISFPs’ love of freedom – ISFPs are very independent and fiercely resist all forms of control. People with this personality type are the ultimate “free souls”, seeing nearly all rules, guidelines and traditions as self-imposed limitations that make life dull and boring. ISFPs live completely in the present, refusing to dwell on the past or prepare extensive plans for the future – they take things as they come, experimenting and adapting their behavior as necessary.”
I love this description so of course I’ll embrace and accept it (I have the same reaction to any and all descriptions I’ve ever read of my Leo sun sign). Reality is that depending upon my mood when I take these tests and how I chose to interpret the questions I have received different answers in the past. I’ve always viewed myself as an extroverted introvert. I do believe I’m more introverted but I have a well developed extroverted side. As a result I tend to avoid “touchy-feely” stuff, at least I used to be this way. Recent developments in my life have forced me to become more fully acquainted with my nurturing, caregiver side – my inner Queens of Cups and Pentacles if you will. I fully embrace and embody my Queens of Wands and Swords but those Cups – ewwww!!! The Queen of Pentacles and I have always been on a cordial, friendly footing even if we’re not always on a first name basis. The Queen of Cups – oh please I’d rather have root canal than enter her realm.
Even as a child reading Greek mythology I was more drawn to Persephone, Athena and Artemis. I avoided Aphrodite and Demeter – mothering and sexuality, NOOOOO!!! I wanted to be a Valkyrie not a mermaid. Now I’m a Work At-Home Caregiver (a WAHC if you will) and have learned that patience, kindness and nurturing are the order of the day. Becoming overly excited or trying to be logical and intellectual in this situation is a waste of time and effort and a surefire path to frustration. So now that I’m learning to be less judgmental and harsh with others maybe I can learn to be less judgmental and harsh with myself. By Freya’s necklace!! Is is possible I’m a deep diver pretending to be a noisy, shallow stream? Or maybe I’m both depending on day, mood and situation. What a conundrum!! I am complex!
If I want to take a more active role in my own life I need to stop hiding behind crystalline walls of logic and intellect. I need to topple that pile of crystal points and allow the love, tenderness and caring pouring from the 2 of Cups rain down on me and gently wash away those fears and doubts. It’s time to turn things inside out and stop seeking the answers in books. I need to trust my heart, find other loving, caring people to help support me and accept support from me. I need to love those that come to me for answers and offer them compassion and kindness blended with some logic and reality. It’s about balance – both aspects have their benefits and it’s time to allow them to blend into a marvelous, beautiful and healing whole.