Card 1 – Positive aspects of pushing this issue? 2 of Cups Rx
Card 2 – Negative aspects of pushing this issue? The Moon
Card 3 – Positive aspects of taking a more Stoic approach? Page of Wands Rx
Card 4 – Negative aspects of taking a more Stoic approach? The Devil Rx
Card 5 – How can I ensure the best possible outcome? Queen of Wands Rx
On Friday a hearing was held to determine if my brother-in-law can be forcibly removed from this house in order for it to be sold. The problem is that he hasn’t left the property in over 30 years. It’s why I ended up in this position in the first place. I can’t afford to keep the house. I certainly can’t afford the renovation that it needs and, as long as I’m stuck here taking care of him, I have no way to earn any income. So I tried to push through the sale and the state, also known as his legal guardian, went to court to stop it. They were successful. The judge decided that it is not in my brother-in-law’s best interests to be forcibly removed from the home. This leaves me with two choices: I can either amp things up from a legal perspective, possibly hiring a lawyer of my own; or I can take a more Stoic approach and handle the things I can but accept that much of this is out of my control and just go with the flow. Admittedly this is not my usual approach to things, but my usual approach has led to many, many months of me banging my head against concrete walls.
So I decided to pull some cards for some clarification. Within this context, pushing the issue would mean amping up the legal proceedings and really kicking up a fuss. Taking the more Stoic approach would mean taking a more thoughtful, grounded approach rather than my usual shoot from the hip style.
The first thing that struck me about the cards is that four out of the five of reversed. This suggests to me that there’s a lot of blockages going on that are impacting this situation and the things will have to get turned on their head before changes will occur. The 2 of Cups Rx as a positive aspect of pushing this issue implies to me that being aggressive will make no one happy. Even if the sale does go through, presumably the seller and me would be happy but it’s not going to bring me the joy that I think it will. I think The Moon reinforces this by implying that I’m deluding myself if I think that pushing this is going to produce the results that I want.
The Page of Wands Rx suggest that the positive side of taking a more Stoic approach is that it will give me more time to focus on where I want to focus my energies once I have the freedom to do so. The Devil Rx shows that the negative side is that I’m going to be tethered to this situation until they’re able to come up with a strategy to relocate my brother-in-law to a residential facility. This isn’t an addiction or a choice I’ve made to commit myself so I can’t free myself right now.
The key to this entire reading for me is this final card – the Queen of Wands Rx. I identify so much with the Queen of Wands that seeing It reversed here screams to me “you can’t resolve this issue by taking your typical shoot from the hip approach”. This isn’t a situation that needs energetic and fiery assertiveness. It needs subtlety and strategy. So it’s time to tap into my Capricorn Moon, and give my Leo Sun a bit of a rest.
As an interesting addendum to my reading, this is a reading a friend did for me regarding this issue using the Förhäxa Tarot. I think it ties in very well with my reading because it look like the figure on The Hanged Man man is being held aloft by a demon. Maybe this is The Devil’s tethering her in place because she needs to be patient and give up control of the situation. The 4 of Water speaks of having to make choices that we may find undesirable which certainly ties in with the reality of this situation right now. I’m getting so caught up in my own emotions about the situation that it’s making me frantic and I need to let it go. The Page of Earth offers what looks to me like a hopeful resolution to all of this. She offers the message that taking baby steps in a grounded and more practical way will produce the seeds of achieving my heart’s desire, which is selling this house and moving back into my own home.
So although things seem rather challenging right now, if I take time and plan a strategy, and accept that it’s not going to happen on my timetable, the situation will resolve itself in a positive way for me and my brother-in-law.